In caring for my great-nephews I’ve seen great improvements in the last 2 1/2years. As early childhood educators we’re taught, “So much depends on a child’s first years. For any child, the conditions present (or absent) in the early years have long-term effects on his or her development. In fact, many issues facing adults in impoverished communities trace back to those early childhood years” (ChildFund, n.d.). I pray I’m not sounding like a broken record to my colleges but, my great-nephews now excel in school, have fewer nightmares because of therapy, stability, health/nutrition, and love. This prompts me to want to conduct a research study locally to see how many more positive foster care parents are needed to deliver security, stability and positive experiences that will last a child a lifetime.
Therapy is something I always thought was necessary if situations in life are overbearing and individuals are unable to cope with and understand. It can create positive and negative effects down the line. One example is when my nephew explained to both his therapist and I that all he remembers
while living with his parents is eating breakfast cereal for breakfast, lunch, and dinner. When he started to attend school, he knew that other meals existed so why couldn’t he have them at home like he does at school? During this process, it gave me a greater appreciation for WIC services that’s an additional supplement for pregnant mothers and children under 5years old because this was the only thing he had. This particular situation made it hard for my nephew to be open to different foods especially vegetables. He would hoard food and sign up for additional meals he can bring home from school to ensure that he will never go hungry again.
To date, my nephew at times forgets to pick up his food bags from school and enjoys eating vegetables more. While growing up I heard a lot about the big brother/big sister organization that would help children in need by being a mentor to underprivileged children. My nephew, their father, unfortunately, didn’t have the opportunities his children now have so he is in need of help with freeing himself from drug abuse, homelessness, and maintaining a steady job. He needs to obtain stability so that one day he can be able to take care of his children. By increasing the assistance society can provide to children in need on all levels will allow our economy to be stronger.
Reference
“Early Childhood Development.” ChildFund, 21 Mar. 2020,
www.childfund.org/early-childhood- development/?gclid=EAIaIQobChMIpY75t4St6AIVjoVaBR2lzww3EAAYASAAEgK-zvD_BwE.